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If that's the case with you then believe in it and give him a chance. You and I most likely have virtually identical life experiences and overall approaches to the world. In so miserable with out him.
Ask her out if you are ok with dating an older woman. If you want to date this woman, pursue that goal. She thinks about dating, and even tries to sometimes, but all the men she meets are Mr. Why don't you ask her our first and start dating and then see if you two are compatible? Older women tend to respect themselves more and have higher standards.
It's not that it's not okay to date them, I'm just not into them. That said, while it's normal to worry about it briefly, if you stick with these concerns, it might mean that there are some lingering insecurities. Thus, one night dating link we only lasted a couple of months.
As a girl, should I be driving an hour for a first date? Older women are awesome because we're well established, are independent, have careers, cool interests and do fun stuff. Even she references how she feels like I'm going to leave her one day because she's getting older but if I didn't put any thought into that then I wouldn't have married her in the first place. Older women, because of their confidence and experience, how to keep a also make better lovers.
When I got out and got my first internship, same deal. Also distance features into the equation but for me the age thing is a much bigger deal. This is the only erotic charge in her entire cruelty-free life.
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Why do you care what other people think about your prospective relationship, or what they might think about you on the basis of who you date? Where do you meet someone when all there is to do is go to a bar? This shows the origin of this question.
My girlfriend too says she likes me because I've got a lot of depth and experience for my age. We made a great couple, and were together for years as well. Put another way, do you really want the respect of men who think this way about women? If some year old dude referred to me as a cougar, I'd probably smack him right upside the head. Her shabby-chic apartment on a quiet street is her bookish refuge.
Oh boy can I answer this one! Before marriage check him if he feels attracted towards his age girls or not if not then go ahead. Well it's crazy because we work in the same place. If it's working for you then that's all there is to the matter. It didn't last, but he's still one of my favorite people in the world.
If you're ashamed of her or of yourself because of her age, do her the favor of breaking things off so that she can find someone who is proud to be with her. If she doesn't know, I suggest you tell her. Hopefully she doesn't think the same way I do. Be glad you've found someone you care about and who feels the same. There's no right or wrong in this sort of situation.
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- It sounds like you don't respect this woman, or at least, the age difference is a deal breaker for you.
- This is only an issue if it's made into an issue.
- Whomever started that cougar and milf shit should die in a fire.
- Not every age-gap relationship is doomed to fail.
- If you're thoughtful and mature and your are compatible, great, have a good time.
Women are people, just like you. Having a girlfriend who is a few years older than you says nothing about you, but worrying about it does. What matters is whether your levels of maturity match, not your calendar age. Does my fiance not respect me?
You like who you like, dating therapist after ask her out and if she says yes I hope you both have fun. Most people assume we are roughly the same age because we are! We had a lot of fun in the time we were together. And it wasn't because of our ages that it didn't work out. He says the most wonderful things.
So women do not always age faster. As a year old, I dated a year old. It's a fine age gap for anyone. Like your story I have been the main driving force behind it because, like you, she is hesitant, worries about the age, worries about this, worries about that.
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Never think about the Age and most importantly never think about what others will think or say or else nothing will work out. We weren't a good match and one of the things that stuck out to me was the difference in maturity. If it becomes serious you won't care about the age difference, and if it's only a bit of fun for both of you, you might learn something about yourself and women.
We are so similar in our ways of thinking, our core values, what we want from life, for everything really and we seem to have a deep soul connection. He's not concerned about the difference at all. Age doesn't really enter into it at all. Some of us even have accepted ourselves and our bodies for what they are and are over the phase of trying to be something we're not. This does not seem to be the case here.
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- Does that make it bad or a bad idea?
In other words, either a five year age difference between consenting adults is creepy or it isn't. My sister-in-law and my ex-sister-in-law are both five or six years older than my brother, and I don't think either relationship has had, or had, any issues relating to their age difference. Gwyneth Paltrow is five years older than Chris Martin. The older party being a woman doesn't somehow make it wrong, that's a sexist double standard and it's bullshit.